
Deserving Wealth & Money
By Lori Hamann
What are your beliefs about
money and wealth? Do you deserve to be wealthy? Do you deserve to have
money? Answer those questions in an honest way...you may find
that there is a part of you that feels that you don't deserve to have money,
that you haven't worked hard enough for it, or you haven't paid your
dues. Listen closely to what your logical mind says versus your gut
level responses. There may be a belief standing in the way of your
prosperity!
Maybe - you think that you
deserve money but your think that your "awful boss" or "greedy
neighbors" don't deserve it. Have you ever felt negatively or
felt that life was unfair when observing another's prosperity in comparison to
your own? If so, you are buying into the fact that having money only
goes to those who play by certain rules. What if you don't play by those rules
at some point in your life? Then you won't deserve money either.
Right?
These beliefs don't serve you
or your ambitions.
So, let's think about the rules
that society has made up about being deserving of wealth. A person
should...
~Make few mistakes
~Be kind all of the time
~Share nicely with the rest of us
~Like money but not too much
~Have gone to college and earned it
~Have lived a hard life and have earned it
~Have worked really really hard for it and earned it
~ETC ETC ETC!
And that is just a few.
We have many beliefs and rules around money, and who should get it - and who
gets our permission to have it without our resentment. Seriously think
about what you believe to be true about money in this way. Beliefs such
as these only serve one purpose, and that it to become a block in your ability
to manifest all the money that you want in your life.
The truth: We all deserve money. We all deserve to create as much
of it as we want. We we born creators, and thus we were born with the
right to create our hearts desire, what ever that maybe. Money is not
attached to deservingness - it's only attached to our willingness to create
and cultivate our wants and desires...and that takes passion and positive
attitude.
Let's get logical around
money. Negative emotional ties about money only jam up your flow of
prosperity. It's best to look at money as something that comes and goes
in your life, something that is just energy, and something that you can have a
love affair with. Think of yourself having full access to as much money as you
want - at all times. My daughter calls the bank "the money
store"...doesn't that feel a little easier? Bringing envy,
jealousy, or negative rules about who should have money will only make less of
it for you. Feeling that you don't deserve money will only show up in
your life as less and less money in your life. Why? Because you don't
deserve it and you will go out and create that reality based on your thoughts
and emotions.
Who's money rules to you
want to play by? Society's or your own?
Make up new rules about
money! It's time to redefine your level of deservingness about
money. Start here..
~I deserve to create and have all that I desire.
~I love having money and I know that I can have as much as I want at any given
time.
~God/Higher Power/Universe provides for me and I trust that all is well and
that all of my prayers are answered.
Be happy for people who have
money - no matter what. If you find yourself cringing and feeling that
others are greedy or you find yourself judging them, instead bless them for
their passion and drive. Look for the positives in others so that you
may attract that unto yourself. And, be happy for yourself when
wealth comes into your life in anyway, express gratitude and thanks. Focus on
the money that you do have, you will notice more wealth coming into your
life. Take charge and disconnect the beliefs that are not serving
you...you have the power to do this. Live consciously!
Lori Hamann © 2004
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