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Detachment, Love, & Abundance
"Many of our physical friends really believe that they must find a
desire and then hold tenaciously to it. And we say, you do not need to do that.
You just concentrate more on holding yourself in the good-feeling place where
you're letting it in."
Abraham 10/7/00
You may have heard that one of the most important states of
being that allows abundance and prosperity to flow into your life is the state
of "detachment". This sounds to be a bit of a paradox doesn't it...if you
want to create, get, or achieve something detach from it? Yes, indeed.
Let's first look at "attachment"? By definitions terms,
attachment simply means a tie or a bond. However, at it applies to life
and being, attachment to something often times has it's emotional roots in
scarcity, and those roots can run deep.
This is a fear based attachment.
Fear based attachment
can feel like you are "holding onto" (for dear life sometimes!), and this
in essence is the vibration of scarcity and lack. You might find yourself
feeling "if I don't hold on tight it (what I want) will get away from me, leave
me, or not come into my life" So you may be holding on tightly to your
dreams, your relationships, your money. Can you feel the sense of
resistance here?
Resistance, no matter
which way you look at it, will not help you to increase abundance and well being
in your life. In fact just the opposite is true.
Let us be reminded about what the Law of
Attraction says - what you
radiate outward in your thoughts, feelings, and words you
attract into your life. So, if you are attached to something because you
are afraid you will loose it, you want to control it, or can't stand to
live without it, then you have much less of a chance of creating that in your
life. You will however create more scarcity, and less of
what you want. Like attracts like.
So let's talk a bit about
"detaching". It is the conscious choice to let go of fear based
attachments in your life. It is the conscious choice to come from
love, acceptance, and appreciation....letting go of control and fear based
expectations.
For some, the word detachment in
itself holds a vibration of disconnection, aloofness, and disinterest. So
this may not be the "word" you are seeking...but the tone that you are seeking
is the same. You come from love, you are love, you radiate love.
This is who you are, and a conscious choice at the same time.
Let's talk more about how to choose this space of detachment...of love:
1. Remember that being in
resistance creates resistance, and stepping into ease creates ease. If you
want to create a life a life of ease, then ease up a bit! Stop clutching,
forcing, and trying so hard - relax, your good will come.
2. Have a little faith!
Trust in divine timing, trust in divine order. Affirm that "all is well"
and "things come to me easily", and "I trust everything will happen in
perfect order".
3. Practice holding dear vs.
holding tight - this applies to your relationships, your career, your
money...anything that you desire. This is a very powerful shift,
it's love based vs. fear based. And it is your focused love that molds
your life....all of life.
4. "Let go" - but don't
let go of your focus. Visualize, imagine, create, intend from a space of
love and positive expectation and belief - the law of attraction won't let you
down, you can count on it like you can count on gravity.
So, here is my challenge to you...do
a quick inventory of your life. What do you have fear based attachments
to? Make a choice to shift your perspective and your feelings toward
a loving sense of detachment and watch life change before your eyes.
Love & Light,
Lori
©Lori Hamann 2006
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